Those tiny little white lies…

You have all heard the old saying. ” A liar’s most important “quality” is a very good memory.”

True enough. If you start spreading lies around you you sure as hell need to remember every word that comes from your mouth. Otherwise, you are in deep shit.

But that’s not my point here. I have definately no wish to teach you how to live your life in lies, and get away with it. That would contradict all I stand for. For me, lying to my love does not exist.

It has to do with respect.You don’t want to lie to a person you love and respect. Be you - remember? Lies are an evil thing. It achieves nothing. It only turns your relationship into a mine field.

If you have done something that will upset your girl - be honest about it. Your relationship will survive that small thingy. Maybe it will survive just because you were honest about it. It means she will trust you when you actually have not been a bad boy.

Else - think twice before doing it, if it scares you to tell her.

However - a little piece of advice may fit in here. Avoiding lies, does not mean you have to spell your every thought out loud. “Do I look fat in this?” Tricky, right? Maybe the right choice of answer is not “yes, a little”…. You can probably honestly tell her that she looks better in that other dress.

All in all, telling the truth might mess your day up. But lies will screw you for life.

’til next time - be true

//Pelle